[this one´s a long on, you have been warned...] :p
So, after having a slightly rough hump-day in which at my trabajo social I was told I had to buy a watermelon for next week, the rest of the weekend turned out pretty nicely.
First I have to tell the story from Wednesday and I promise to tell it as unbaisedly as possibly and it will still sound ridiculous. Ok, I work with old people- we know this. There are other permanent nurses that work there as well. Everyday before lunch the patients get fruit of some sort as a snack. Other times we (the student volunteers) have had like an orange or something. The other nurses also eat the fruit sometimes as well, and this Wednesday we had watermelon and they ate some of that. So, Pete and I had some too (me, one piece and him two I think). When he was eating his second piece one of the nurses came by and told him/us that the fruit was for the patients. Later, the woman who we initially met with and who I think is one of if not the one in charge of ABEI- the home, came up and asked to speak with us. Two things: first, there was a flier in her office for us of some workshops we could attend put on by or in conjunction with ABEI, and second, she was told that we had eaten some of the watermelon.
Was this true?
Yes.
Who ate it?
I did (Kerry), I didn’t have any (Tristan), I ate some too (Pete).
Ok. Well it is for the patients, so (and this is a direct quote in command form) “you guys bring me a watermelon next Wednesday. Between the two of you (Pete & I), one watermelon.”
Ok (Me), No problem (Pete).
-For eating three fucking pieces of watermelon!!! Pete and I are supposed to buy a whole new watermelon for next time we come. Even better, more nurses came in later and ate some more, AND there was still some left over at lunch time when they took it away. Excuse me for not bleeping out any of my chosen word, but really??? That’s completely out of line. We are mother f’in volunteers!!! Of course, Pete and I are going to buy the watermelon and then I fully intend to tell Monica (the professor from ACLAS in charge of the trabajo social) the story at our next reunion on Wednesday night. And I will probably continue to be bitter towards all the nurses who as Pete out it, basically “tattled” on us. It doesn’t help that I already got vibes from them that they were judging us. Probably from the times they would sit together and watch us try to talk to the patients and whatnot and then whisper- I dunno, I think that might be it. [Can you tell this isn’t exactly being the most wonderful experience of my life?] Anyway, like I said, the weekend helped.
Friday after going to our art workshop and after lunch Hilary and I went to watch the swim competition of some of our friends in the swimming class at USFQ. After, we all piled into the car of the Ecuadorian who we ate pizza with last week, and his parents dropped us off at our friend Megan’s house. We being, Andres (the pizza kid), Pete, Megan, Cassie, Gwen, Hilary, and I. Tristan came over later. We took a walking trip to the bank and Supermaxi where we bought ice cream and juice. One of the ice creams tasted like Biscotti! Awesome! Then we went back to Megan’s house and went up to the 9th floor where we proceeded to take some pictures of the city at dusk and play in a random shopping cart that was on the roof. Took pictures of that too.
Hilary and I finished one liter cartoon of ice cream there before the pizza we ordered arrived. We finally decided on a movie to watch, Pan’s Labyrinth, and paused it part way through to eat our pizza. The boys decided not to finish watching the movie, but the girls did… along with which Hilary and I (most I) finished almost another liter of ice cream (different kind). I know, that’s absolutely disgusting, but after deciding that I probably ate about a liter and a half of ice cream that night everyone was very impressed with me
If only that was a useful talent. After the movie we called it a night and headed home.
Saturday morning I got up and met Cassie for my second cup of coffee (the first being at my house) at about 9 o’clock, as we waited for Gwen to meet up with us. The three of us then hopped on the ecovia to the south where we planned to catch another bus to head to Papallacta- know for its natural hotsprings. Because we were just so determined to go somewhere outside Quito, we hadn’t done really much research (meaning any) so we stopped by to ask Marco’s parents for some beginning direction. Big Marco ended up finding us the right bus and just for fun paying the $2 for each of us for the way there. These people are getting a great Christmas/Thank you present before we leave. We had some time to kill and we needed a bathroom so we went to a coffee shop where I had my third cup of coffee, and used the bathroom. We finally left at 11:30 and were then on the bus for about 2 ½ hours. We arrived in one of the locations of the pools in Papallacta (that’s basically all there is there) and paid another $2 in total for a man to drive us up the hill to the pools. There we ate some slightly sketchy food, including some really chewy meat for which we were overcharged for, and then struggled buying ice cream bars afterwards because we could not understand the woman’s difference between saying “venticinco” and “noventa-cinco” (25 and 95) cents. Anyway, finally we went up to the hot springs, paid $7 to get in, and enjoyed a bit of the afternoon in the hot pools. It was a nice relaxing time. Hilary had come up earlier with her host brother and his wife and we had planned to meet up with her, but times did not coincide. In any case, the three of us had a good time. After, we walked down the hill from the pools, discovered we needed to walk all the way into town to catch the bus back to Quito, walked more, waited about 20 minutes for the bus (not at a stop, just on the road), then got on. But of course there were no seats so we stood. I had to laugh at how creative Gwen and I were getting to try and get comfortable. We were all tired at this point, and falling asleep standing up, but somehow still in very good spirits. Towards the end of the trip we started chatting with a guy who had also been standing in Spanglish who actually was from Italy. He wanted to speak in English though. We had a nice chat about why we were all here in Ecuador and such (I think he’s doing something with a job or research for his PhD or something…) We discovered that he was 28 but avoided telling our ages because it’s rude to ask a woman’s age in Italy. Gwen got his phone number in case we wanted to show him around Quito on Sunday because he was working in Guayaquil and didn’t know Quito at all. After being completely lost at the bus terminal in Quito and not knowing how to get to the Ecovia, we caved and paid $4 for a taxi to Quicentro where we went to eat cheesecake and I had my fourth cup of coffee for the day. Note: the cheesecake here is very different and more like milk with gelatin… a disappointment for sure if you’re expecting American/traditional cheesecake. Although, with a fourth cup of coffee and much tiredness it doesn’t bother you too terribly much. Finally got home, drank lots of water, but probably still not enough, and called it a night after a semi-adventurous but satisfying day outside of Quito.
Sunday, woke up and had a breakfast of cheese and bread (the cheese probably not such a good idea later) and left to go running- or what I now call training- at about 9:30, I ran one loop around Parque Carolina which I think measured at about 3.6 km, then met up with Hilary and Gwen to run some more, in total about another 3.6 km and a total of about a 50 min run with an extra maybe two minute pause after the first lap. Longest I have ever run, in my life.
We also recruited Gwen to run the 12k with us in November. She didn’t want to but Cassie convinced her that they weren’t gonna run the whole way so Gwen agreed. It was a bit tougher of a run though, I think in part because it was later in the day and hotter, I hadn’t run Saturday, and was carting around all that ice cream and coffee in me still. But I felt good after the run (after the slight dizziness wore off). Then we headed back to my house to get our basketball and hopefully find a court to play on. When we got back to the park we did find a court, although crummy, and within 10 minutes of shooting around people showed up and asked to play a game and we had a game of 5 on 5 going. Still hot outside and exhausted from our run we managed to plug out about a 45 or so minute game to 30. Mine and Gwen’s team won. But overall it was funny to see that despite the fact that all of us haven’t played in a while, we were probably the better players out on the court. It was fun though. And even though you had to watch every other step to not step in a pothole, it was good to play again, and actual game of some sort. Thoroughly exhausted I came home and took a shower and took a bit of a nap. Two hours later woke up and ate lunch with my family, and met my host brother’s girlfriend for the first time, as well as tried wine cake for the first time. Interesting, but very good, and I didn’t feel so guilty after my hour and a half plus workout in the morning. After a little bit of a chat on Skype with the padres I watched Chocolat, felt longing for a man like Johnny Depp, :p scribbled out a poem, and called it a night.
Monday started off with a run as well. A seven minute warm-up followed by another 50 some minute run of two more laps. If right now I am at slightly more than 7 km (probably about 7.5 counting the distance from and to my house from the park) right now and 50 minutes, this will take a bit more training in the next month to reach my goal of 12k’s (which I still think was unrealistic seeing as I was hoping to be able to run 10k’s by the time I returned to the US in December.)
But it does make you feel better just in general to run that much. And I never feel as hungry after I workout, so I’m not loading up on as much bread and cheese. (Running is actually quite healthy for you!) Although the pollution is starting to catch up with my asthma- and I don’t have enough inhaler left for the entire time here. My cough is starting to come back a little. Even more, other people from our WU group have mentioned they’ve started to develop a cough after running and at night as well (not accompanied by other cold-like symptoms- sounds exactly like my sport induced asthma.) I still think that the pollution of this city is one of the most frustrating and difficult things to get used to, in fact I am still not accustomed to it and still just as irritated by it as when I first came, if not more. But after running and feeling like dying I managed a relaxing morning and then ate lunch- in a slightly tense air… [Side Note…]
[It seems to me, and others as we have discussed it, that part of the culture here is to put a large emphasis on family. Sons and daughters alike live at home until marriage the majority of the time and even after come for lunch quite regularly to the homes of their parents. My host sister and her husband come to eat lunch at my host parents’ house for the most part every week day, and remain here at the house with their three kids until about 6:30 or 7:00 at night. In the mornings it is common to eat breakfast together as well (which sometimes causes problems for me when my host dad wants to talk longer than my morning schedule allows) but it is a quite large deal to be together for lunch. Today, I discovered it can be a slightly bigger deal than I had even originally thought.]
[Back to the Story] From what I understood, because I was taking a pre-lunch nap when all this happened, my host sister called the house to say she and her husband would not be coming to eat lunch today (at least not until later). My host dad’s assistant (and goddaughter who is 19) answered the phone and talked to my host sister. For one, my host dad was upset that his daughter had not asked to speak to him and why Veronica, his assistant had not given him the phone and only relayed the message. So Vero left for a while I guess after having some harsh words exchanged in her direction, but did come back and talked to my host mom after lunch. Overall, I got the impression that my host dad was basically upset that my host sister was not coming for lunch and that he directly hadn’t been told this and why. He likes to be in control and informed (and right) in many issues. Because he was upset he did not like any of the food and did not eat much or much with us/me. My host mom ate a little something with me, but for the most part I was the only eating…and the house was very quiet except for my host mother telling my host dad that of course it was always someone else’s fault and that when he didn’t have anyone to put the blame on he was upset (more or less), and everyone also trying to figure out what was said to Vero, why she left, and if she was coming back. In any case, it was interesting and slightly uncomfortable but I escaped the house safely and went with Hilary to buy stamps and send another batch of postcards. Then we met up with Cassie and Kayla and went to buy more movies (although I did end up with a different movie in one box than was supposed to be there.) We’ll try to exchange that soon. Then we swapped Hilary out for Megan and had a coffee and sweets date… after an excruciating experience on the Ecovia. There is no way that I can explain what these trips are really like because I know that I would never have believed the severity of it if someone had told me about it before seeing it for myself. This is the incredible over-occupancy of the buses. People standing in the aisles cram together so closely that you can not turn or move much more than maybe an inch in either direction (absolutely no exaggeration). As the bus lurches you needn’t hold onto any railing because you will not move around at all, you can’t. Bodies are pressed right up against one another and you literally must push, with force, to make your way off the bus at the stop you want. People are pressed against the doors and at the next stop, still more try to, and do, pile one… which only makes it more crowded. In the maybe 18 square feet of space in front of the door there can be around 20+ people. Yes, I am entirely serious. So today was one of those rides. Very hot, humid, smelly, and overall just dirty, with 7 stops to go till our destination it was incredible how angry we all got just from the situation. So much so for me that I told the others I was getting off a stop early and going to walk. Once I stepped off it took lots within me not to let out a scream and I felt sticky from all my own and the sweat of others. Cassie managed to get out right before her claustrophobia erupted. (Note, Cassie does not suffer from claustrophobia…) But after washing my hands and eating my sweets I felt ten-fold better. Came home and did a little studying before Hilary came over and we watched another movie- this time America’s Sweethearts. As my sarcastic friend she could appreciate all the banter in this movie. Exhausted from all the day’s experiences and with my alarm set for 7 am to going running tomorrow before school, I called it a night, and called it a weekend.